三月流焱：无论人生还是友情，平平淡淡才是真

恋人如果不落实到习惯性、吃饭、数钱、睡觉这些实实在在的孤独当中去，是不不易安稳的。

Love is not easy to live, dress, eat, count money and sleep.

Fuel, cooking, a bowl of food, a ladle of drink, it is hard to avoid plain trivial, but it is these trivial constitute our daily life, put together the most simple, real happiness and happiness.

老年人的恋人，不是海誓山盟，而是平淡孤独当中的相互间惦记和扶养。

The middle-aged love, not vows of eternal love, but plain life miss each other and care.

所以，用心身边那个在一起多年，还记得你最家常什么菜；每晚会随手给你盖好被子；每年婚宴为你匆忙送给；每次大打出手后会主动向你大声规劝的人。

So, cherish the one around you for years, remember your favorite dish, cover you every party, gift every birthday party and bow to you after every argument.

因为在恋人里，心动不是题目，心定才是归宿。无论爱情还是恋人，平平淡淡才是真。

Because in love, the heart is not the answer, the heart is the home.Whether life or love, plain is true.